Dying To Know

A Relationship is one step further after friendship; it’s only our approach to get into more serious friendship. We want to know each other plus and minus and the main point is to know what she/he loved for. Many relationships that I’ve known may contain different objectives; one may only find his/her wealth, one may find different sensations with the other mate, and the other finds the true love.

A true love is what everybody wants (if we on the opposite side), it always treat us with care and not about complaining our lack because true love is going to make us complete each other forever and ever. Many of my friends that have made a relationship were always begin with the friendship. It was, because in the friendship stage, at least we have already known what kind of person our mate was and from there love was grow The true love was always hard to find, in the relationship stage our mates have always act good. But when they have married, all of the negative side appeared and this is the one of the main cause of divorces. It’s better for the each side (we and our mate) to be their selves. Although it could be hard in the start, but I’m sure it will lead to a better result in the end.

All we have to do is collect as much information that we can. A nice conversation is very important thing to know each other profile. Maybe if we give them some stories with different topics, it can make us understand what kind of person they were. Example is: One of our parents is going old and can do nothing anymore; it is our responsible to take care of them. How do we deal with it? What is the answer of your mate has may bring into many different interpretations. It comes back to us again on how we interpret the answer.

To start a Relationship there can be 2 ways, verbal and non-verbal. Most of my friends begin a relationship with verbal ways. With the verbal ways, we can actually know what our mate feels and it also can make us free of worry. Verbal ways is usually used for the relationship that doesn’t have a certain response from our mate. A non-verbal ways usually used when two persons are definitely known each other feeling with the help of body language and don’t need to explain it verbally.

All of those two methods are need to be thought carefully before we decide to make a relationship with someone. Remember that this process leads to more serious stage before we get married. We must consider not only our feeling aspect, but we also have to make a future planning about it (financial aspect, social aspect, etc.). It’s strongly recommended to avoid a love breaking because it may affect on our mate felling, mental and their social lives regarding our carelessness about starting a relationship.

A Relationship can be unstable if one of them says non-right words and does non-right things.
Words that have to be avoided in making relationship:
1. Make excessive promises.
2. Talk about something that can make our mate becomes jealous.

Things that have to be avoided in making relationship:
1. Looking at and flirt with the other mate while we are on a date. It can hurt her/his feeling.
2. Don’t make our mate feels self-conscious. It will make she/he feels like they aren’t the right person that match with you.
3. Ask too many questions. It shows that we are nervous and it looks like that we avoid their questions with our questions.
4. Not on time appointment. This can make us untrustworthy.